Supportive Community http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/feed/? Latest topics Wed, 10 Mar 2010 13:54:12 GMT 10 Supportive Community http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a98/LMG123_/butterfly/thwelcomemoon.gif http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/feed/? Worn out http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/emotionally-struggling-need-to-talk-f3/worn-out-t1184.htm tenzin Completley exhausted . My grans lived with us for 13 months now and has dementia and altzhimers plus austio arthuritus , dreadful mobility plus numerous other problems . Im absolutley exausted right now . Shes been in for respite twice for a total of 7 days in 13 months . We get no backing from faimly whatsoever , not even one have offered any help once , not taken her out "nothing . Every time i take her to the doctors or hospital she picks up a virus , chest or water infection then ... Emotionally struggling? Need to Talk? Mon, 08 Mar 2010 20:58:26 GMT http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/emotionally-struggling-need-to-talk-f3/worn-out-t1184.htm#17744 http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/emotionally-struggling-need-to-talk-f3/worn-out-t1184.htm symbol added to posting http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/technical-support-f5/symbol-added-to-posting-t1188.htm Wisdom I believe it was shadow who added a symbol to the end of most members postings......... It was a very attractive symbol. What ever happened to it? Technical Support Wed, 10 Mar 2010 13:54:12 GMT http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/technical-support-f5/symbol-added-to-posting-t1188.htm#17781 http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/technical-support-f5/symbol-added-to-posting-t1188.htm Questions about chat feature http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/technical-support-f5/questions-about-chat-feature-t1180.htm lilbird Hi, I didn't know where to put this so I decided to put it here. I log into the chatroom feature sometimes and nobody is ever there. Is there any feature that could tell me if someone else logs in? That way I could carry on with my stuff in different windows and not miss the opportunity to chat with people. I know that when I log on it bings and says "welcome", kinda cool. I know part of the problem is that I am on the West of Canada and my time zone is -8 hours from GMT and most people ... Technical Support Sat, 27 Feb 2010 22:02:20 GMT http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/technical-support-f5/questions-about-chat-feature-t1180.htm#17632 http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/technical-support-f5/questions-about-chat-feature-t1180.htm Counsellors Board http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/technical-support-f5/counsellors-board-t1176.htm Sleekit Hi. Can you tell me how to get access to the counsellors board? I'm a counsellor in training and want to be able to access the articles etc... Thanks, Sarah Technical Support Wed, 24 Feb 2010 09:16:56 GMT http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/technical-support-f5/counsellors-board-t1176.htm#17592 http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/technical-support-f5/counsellors-board-t1176.htm Scared to Distraction http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/emotionally-struggling-need-to-talk-f3/scared-to-distraction-t1175.htm deesharon I have a forty-four year old son I do not even recognize by everything he has to say and only recently been in frequent contact with since he has been under the care of professionals who have him on anti-depressants for a length of time probably since sometime during the year following Christmas 2003. His animated conversations blaming everyone for any problem we have with him and no recognition of his own position and bazzare hypervigilant obsessive intellectual superiority and certainty that ... Emotionally struggling? Need to Talk? Sun, 21 Feb 2010 18:46:25 GMT http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/emotionally-struggling-need-to-talk-f3/scared-to-distraction-t1175.htm#17551 http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/emotionally-struggling-need-to-talk-f3/scared-to-distraction-t1175.htm Removal of Posts http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/forum-announcements-f4/removal-of-posts-t1170.htm sky
We do not remove any posts or threads on request unless we consider them to be a threat to confidentiality. Then, on request, we will modify them accordingly.]]> Forum Announcements Sat, 20 Feb 2010 12:41:11 GMT http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/forum-announcements-f4/removal-of-posts-t1170.htm#17525 http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/forum-announcements-f4/removal-of-posts-t1170.htm Shadow http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/forum-announcements-f4/shadow-t1169.htm sky Dear Members I am pleased to announce that Shadow is back on the boards to help me with the moderating. She will also take up her old role as technical support meaning she will take over the technical matters in admin for me when needed - she is far better than me at it and loves to be creative there!! Animus will reply to any technical support isssues on the technical support board if i am not around. This means she will be monitoring the boards to keep you all safe but right now she would ... Forum Announcements Fri, 19 Feb 2010 21:01:43 GMT http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/forum-announcements-f4/shadow-t1169.htm#17498 http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/forum-announcements-f4/shadow-t1169.htm Signatures? http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/technical-support-f5/signatures-t1164.htm ctgirl25 I am pretty much brain dead in this category...lol, but how do I upload a signature? Does anyone know of a website I can go to get one? it's been AGES since I have done that, and even then, I was NEVER good at it. Thanks in advance for any help, and sorry if I put this in the wrong category.

Love,

Lauren]]> Technical Support Wed, 17 Feb 2010 18:16:15 GMT http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/technical-support-f5/signatures-t1164.htm#17441 http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/technical-support-f5/signatures-t1164.htm Can't sign in http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/emotionally-struggling-need-to-talk-f3/can-t-sign-in-t1117.htm Anonymous
I can't sign in. I don't know my password. I got sent a new one but that password isn't working either. My computer is fried. It won't load Windows. My password is saved on my computer so I don't have access to it (I'm on my mom's computer right now). I'm going to need to buy a new one next month. I go through computers so fast. I need one that's a lot more durable, one that can handle a lot of use without dying.]]> Emotionally struggling? Need to Talk? Sun, 20 Dec 2009 17:07:04 GMT http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/emotionally-struggling-need-to-talk-f3/can-t-sign-in-t1117.htm#16393 http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/emotionally-struggling-need-to-talk-f3/can-t-sign-in-t1117.htm Seizures http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/emotionally-struggling-need-to-talk-f3/seizures-t1103.htm Anonymous I'm at my mom's apartment. I'm not able to log in for some reason. I had a really bad seizure lastnight. I went to the emergency room. I was on the computer at my apartment and I fell backwards and hit my head. I was unconcious for a while after the seizure. I've been having seizures a lot. My medication isn't working. I'm going to talk to my doctor about being hospitalized. I don't feel safe at home. I want the doctor to run tests. I can't sleep. I'm worried about having another seizure and ... Emotionally struggling? Need to Talk? Sun, 29 Nov 2009 07:57:30 GMT http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/emotionally-struggling-need-to-talk-f3/seizures-t1103.htm#15980 http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/emotionally-struggling-need-to-talk-f3/seizures-t1103.htm Un register http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/technical-support-f5/un-register-t1077.htm Anonymous
Can anyone tell me how to un register from the forum ?

Much appreciated

Guest]]> Technical Support Thu, 12 Nov 2009 20:14:27 GMT http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/technical-support-f5/un-register-t1077.htm#15556 http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/technical-support-f5/un-register-t1077.htm Flashing envelope / private message symbol? http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/technical-support-f5/flashing-envelope-private-message-symbol-t1080.htm Wiggy
Can somebody tell me why the little envelope symbol flashes on some threads but not on others. Also, why are some different colours? Sorry if this seems a thick question but I can't work it out.

Thanks

Sue]]> Technical Support Sat, 14 Nov 2009 17:16:24 GMT http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/technical-support-f5/flashing-envelope-private-message-symbol-t1080.htm#15606 http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/technical-support-f5/flashing-envelope-private-message-symbol-t1080.htm The Invitation http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/forum-guidelines-f2/the-invitation-t269.htm Anonymous It doesn't interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for, and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing. It doesn't interest me how old you are. I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love, for your dream, for the adventure of being alive. It doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon. I want to know if you have touched the center of your own sorrow, if you have been opened by life's betrayals or have become shriveled ... Forum Guidelines Sun, 26 Apr 2009 07:35:05 GMT http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/forum-guidelines-f2/the-invitation-t269.htm#1991 http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/forum-guidelines-f2/the-invitation-t269.htm Cookies http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/technical-support-f5/cookies-t1069.htm Wisdom Delete the forum cookies - Did the forum bake cookies and I don't know about it? Do I have to do anything for this?

Wiz ]]> Technical Support Tue, 03 Nov 2009 13:34:56 GMT http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/technical-support-f5/cookies-t1069.htm#15314 http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/technical-support-f5/cookies-t1069.htm invisible http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/technical-support-f5/invisible-t1063.htm Wisdom
Wiz ]]> Technical Support Sat, 31 Oct 2009 20:17:01 GMT http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/technical-support-f5/invisible-t1063.htm#15253 http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/technical-support-f5/invisible-t1063.htm Changing account email address http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/technical-support-f5/changing-account-email-address-t1062.htm psychstudent09 Is there any way to change the email address for this account? I'd like it to be the same one I use for my facebook account if it's possible. Technical Support Thu, 29 Oct 2009 06:28:01 GMT http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/technical-support-f5/changing-account-email-address-t1062.htm#15166 http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/technical-support-f5/changing-account-email-address-t1062.htm Bad experience in therapy http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/emotionally-struggling-need-to-talk-f3/bad-experience-in-therapy-t1052.htm Anonymous I am still recovering from being 'harmed' by a therapist, probably not in such an intense manner. Having been in therapy before, very successfully, I needed to find a new therapist locally. I was recommended to try EMDR - so I found a thrapist who practiced that locally. Now, I would hope that any therapist would understand about clinical depression and the fact that clinically depressed people cannot relax. I would also hope that any therapist worth their salt would recognise transferance. To ... Emotionally struggling? Need to Talk? Sun, 25 Oct 2009 14:44:35 GMT http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/emotionally-struggling-need-to-talk-f3/bad-experience-in-therapy-t1052.htm#14980 http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/emotionally-struggling-need-to-talk-f3/bad-experience-in-therapy-t1052.htm Help recovering from therapist harm http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/emotionally-struggling-need-to-talk-f3/help-recovering-from-therapist-harm-t1049.htm Anonymous Hello, There's not a lot of activity here, but I'm not quite sure where to find the appropriate support. I've tried a couple of other places but am still hurting from my experience. So here it goes... How do you recover from a psychotherapist who has emotionally harmed you? Well it was pretty intense...when undergoing an assessment from a new psychotherapist, I experienced a strong initial transference by our third meeting. He reminded me so much of my father, I later realized. ... Emotionally struggling? Need to Talk? Sun, 25 Oct 2009 00:16:53 GMT http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/emotionally-struggling-need-to-talk-f3/help-recovering-from-therapist-harm-t1049.htm#14967 http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/emotionally-struggling-need-to-talk-f3/help-recovering-from-therapist-harm-t1049.htm Home Sweet Home image http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/technical-support-f5/home-sweet-home-image-t1042.htm psychstudent09
But since it scrolls down with the page instead of staying in one place it's really difficult to be able to click on the log in or register button on the image unless the person has a really fast reflex. Is there a way to keep it from scrolling?

Sorry for bugging you about this stuff Sky and Shadow.]]> Technical Support Thu, 22 Oct 2009 12:26:53 GMT http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/technical-support-f5/home-sweet-home-image-t1042.htm#14862 http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/technical-support-f5/home-sweet-home-image-t1042.htm Helplines UK http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/helplines-uk-f107/helplines-uk-t350.htm sky UK HELPLINES Al-Anon Family Groups For family and friends of problem drinkers. (020) 7403 0888 Alcoholics Anonymous 0845 7697 555 ASSIST-Assistance Support and Self-Help in Surviving Trauma A national charity that provides telephone support, counseling and information for people who are experiencing Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. Monday to Friday, 10am-4pm. 01788 560800 Breaking Free Helpline for women survivors of Child Sexual Abuse. 020 8648 3500 Careline Confidential ... Helplines UK Tue, 28 Apr 2009 20:14:58 GMT http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/helplines-uk-f107/helplines-uk-t350.htm#2377 http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/helplines-uk-f107/helplines-uk-t350.htm For Shadow: Script Problem in the sites html http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/technical-support-f5/for-shadow-script-problem-in-the-sites-html-t1026.htm psychstudent09
script src="http://h1.flashvortex.com/display.php?id=3_1252742716_1407_342_0_468_60_9_88"
type="text/javascript">;


I think it's connected to the popup that shows up when someone visit's the forum because it shows that on the popup window above the regular text.]]> Technical Support Mon, 05 Oct 2009 10:59:33 GMT http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/technical-support-f5/for-shadow-script-problem-in-the-sites-html-t1026.htm#14429 http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/technical-support-f5/for-shadow-script-problem-in-the-sites-html-t1026.htm Problem accessing forum http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/technical-support-f5/problem-accessing-forum-t1024.htm psychstudent09 Quite often lately I've been getting a message that the forum is receiving maintenance and I'm not able to visit the forum. I'm not sure if one of you are really working on the site or if it's a quirk. Technical Support Sun, 04 Oct 2009 16:19:31 GMT http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/technical-support-f5/problem-accessing-forum-t1024.htm#14373 http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/technical-support-f5/problem-accessing-forum-t1024.htm is this you ? http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/emotionally-struggling-need-to-talk-f3/is-this-you-t1001.htm little red Every single one of these is me !! came as quite a shock. Is this something which you found on the internet? I found it interesting, my mother was none of these (mentally) ill, aloof, cold, non-caring, or even cruel) yet I never felt I had a mother like my friends. I felt alone and alien, I cant even have a conversation with her. I dont know why its just the way it has always been. I often felt furstrated by her and wondered what it would be like to have a mother which I felt I bonded with It ... Emotionally struggling? Need to Talk? Sat, 26 Sep 2009 21:53:19 GMT http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/emotionally-struggling-need-to-talk-f3/is-this-you-t1001.htm#14059 http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/emotionally-struggling-need-to-talk-f3/is-this-you-t1001.htm the Calendar http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/technical-support-f5/the-calendar-t1009.htm lilbird ie;
why are some days grayed out?
who else has access to the calendar information? (admin? mods?)
stuff like that :)]]> Technical Support Mon, 28 Sep 2009 20:55:30 GMT http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/technical-support-f5/the-calendar-t1009.htm#14150 http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/technical-support-f5/the-calendar-t1009.htm This top bit http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/technical-support-f5/this-top-bit-t997.htm tandem
The top bit (open access, I think) is still unclear to me
I get the brown envelope, to say there's a new message, but I have no immdeiate clue which of the 4 subject areas has a new message.
I don't think I'm being picky, Shad.
I think I'm talking about functionality.
If I'm wrong feel free to explain.

tandem the brave]]> Technical Support Sat, 26 Sep 2009 18:36:50 GMT http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/technical-support-f5/this-top-bit-t997.htm#14047 http://mutualsupport.englishboards.com/technical-support-f5/this-top-bit-t997.htm